Reading my e-mails while eating my breakfast, I have just been hit by a thought.
When people close to me are unhappy, I’m unhappy. So I spend my time and energy trying to make them happy. Because, when they are happy, so am I. But, it doesn’t work. You cannot “make” someone else happy. Happiness, positivity, optimism… are a choice, it has to come from within themselves, It is their choice to make. I have been fighting a loosing battle.
I think I have been looking at things the wrong way round. What if the people close to me would be happy if I was happier?
It sounds a little selfish putting it in to black and white but I think I need to put some more thought into this…..